Like Rachel many women need to start by…


Like Rachel, many women need to start by getting to know the guy, see if they like him, if they enjoy his company. That is quite different from gauging if you are attracted to someone or making sure that he is attracted to you. Discovering your similarity of interests and values, the sense that he is interested in you, the person and not as a means to an end – all of these are better predictors of qualities that lead to having a relationship.

http://www.estherperel.com/2015/06/we-just-met-i-like-you-how-do-i-tell-you-about-my-dark-secrets/

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