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You may find glorious freedom on the other side of a decision

It is easier to make a choice when you acknowledge that there isn’t just one person for you, nor is there just one relationship and one life we can lead. We simply pick one. http://www.estherperel.com/the-paradox-of-choice-how-to-choose-a-partner Continue reading

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“No” to the status quo

I would like to invite you to imagine that sometimes you need betrayal to upset a wrong social system. We think sometimes that other forms of betrayal have the moral high ground. I have a lot of people who come to my office who think that they are the virtuous people because they haven’t cheated. […] Continue reading

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The goal isn’t to conquer each other, but to find wholeness.

Healing – and we all need it – comes through sharing our stories. It comes through bearing witness. We need to write our own stories, know them, and tell them. We also need to listen — truly listen — to each other. To set our defenses aside and search for the truth in what the […] Continue reading

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